Energy (the firing action within the brain) able to build embedded connections comes in two ways: a huge surge, or many tiny surges.
A huge surge comes into your brain when a scary event hits your life. The huge surge wires into your brain: where you were, what you were doing, who you were with, even smells, and sounds. Fire together, wire together.
But, the many seemingly unimportant bits required to learn to read do not cause huge surges. Tiny surges - created by the practice of b says ba or ce always says s - soon melt away; many, many repetitions are vital for fire together, wire together learning to embed in the brain.
The brain requires that lessons become so well fired together that they can spring instantly from long-term memory. Being slow to recall any of the tiny bits that make up our collection of reading skills has the result of causing a cascade of troubles. (By the way, stress is huge brain drain; try to keep it out of lessons you are teaching.)
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Have fun reading with your child. Thank you, Mary Maisner